Ranting
Ranting about another friend >.<
Am I the only one who just can not endure some of my friends?
These days I feel like I am acting too rude towards my friends. I am not a person who likes chatting on Facebook or anything similar, so I don't chat with them, but when I have to do so I'll be huffing and puffing not wanting to talk to them and answer briefly so as to get rid of them.
So I posted about a letter to a friend, now I will talk about another friend whom I seem to not be able to endure any longer.
This other friend of mine is a total Korea worshiper. During all the years I knew her she loved some bands and then discarded them and started loving another. Recently she became a fan of BTS.
Now I'm sure you're wondering why I am unable to endure her, so I will talk about myself a little bit and then I will tell you what bothers me about her.
First, I do not hate Korea, but I do not keep up with its bands or dramas even though when I hear a song or watch a drama I like it. I also like peace and quiet and darkness, I like to read books peacefully without any sort of distraction whatsoever.
She, on the other hand, seems to like noise. Whenever we are together she starts talking about the bands and albums and stuff I do not understand and do not want to understand. The way she talks about them is like it is an obligation to be a fan of whatever she likes. I like stuff as well, but I do not try to force it upon people. I do talk about the things I like excitedly now and then, but I do not go overboard with my enthusiasm.
I have a schedule on Monday which I do not like to interrupt. Since I do not study in the afternoon while my room mates do, I decided it was the perfect time to spent eating, sleeping, and reading after I woke up.
There was this one time that she told me she was coming to my room, so I did not sleep and let her be. As I said before, I love peace and quiet, but she is the total opposite. During her stay she would listen to her music or bother me again with pictures and videos of that band. I was so annoyed, but I could not just tell her to gather her stuff and leave.
When she asked me another time, luckily in a message, telling me not to sleep because she was coming over, I got really angry; I replied telling her politely that I was too tired that day, which I was by the way, if she could go to someone else instead. I was so tired and angry I was willing to skip food, and that is not a good sign because I have inappropriate feeling towards food.
She sent me a message telling me she had nowhere to go, for her cousin had the key to her room and she was studying at that time. I felt terrible and told her that I was going to leave the door open for her, but I instructed her not to wake me up. However I decided I was better off waiting for her and then head to bed, but she called and said she was not coming. You can not imagine how happy I was then.
Now moving on to the next thing that bothers me about her. We all go to university to study, and since Thursday is the last day we all want to go home early. Both of us have a Literary Texts lecture, but she goes home and I stay. Later she asks me to give her my handouts and information.
Dear friend, you decided to go home, so take responsibility of your decisions. Even though if you did not find a bus to take you home you can stay at your uncle's house or have your father get you home. On the other hand I neither have relatives to stay with nor a father or anyone to take me home on the rare occasion of there being no buses, so why am I the one to stay and you to leave?
She said that the second semester she would start attending, but whenever I ask her why she was not attending, she says she is either tired or sick. As if I am not tired at all, and even if I am sick I stay. It's only one lecture and then you are permitted to go home, what damage would it cause you if you stayed an hour or two?
I may come out mean, but if you go through what I am going through no matter how silly it is, you would want to vent your anger now and then in order to be able to endure more later.
Am I the only one who just can not endure some of my friends?
These days I feel like I am acting too rude towards my friends. I am not a person who likes chatting on Facebook or anything similar, so I don't chat with them, but when I have to do so I'll be huffing and puffing not wanting to talk to them and answer briefly so as to get rid of them.
So I posted about a letter to a friend, now I will talk about another friend whom I seem to not be able to endure any longer.
This other friend of mine is a total Korea worshiper. During all the years I knew her she loved some bands and then discarded them and started loving another. Recently she became a fan of BTS.
Now I'm sure you're wondering why I am unable to endure her, so I will talk about myself a little bit and then I will tell you what bothers me about her.
First, I do not hate Korea, but I do not keep up with its bands or dramas even though when I hear a song or watch a drama I like it. I also like peace and quiet and darkness, I like to read books peacefully without any sort of distraction whatsoever.
She, on the other hand, seems to like noise. Whenever we are together she starts talking about the bands and albums and stuff I do not understand and do not want to understand. The way she talks about them is like it is an obligation to be a fan of whatever she likes. I like stuff as well, but I do not try to force it upon people. I do talk about the things I like excitedly now and then, but I do not go overboard with my enthusiasm.
I have a schedule on Monday which I do not like to interrupt. Since I do not study in the afternoon while my room mates do, I decided it was the perfect time to spent eating, sleeping, and reading after I woke up.
There was this one time that she told me she was coming to my room, so I did not sleep and let her be. As I said before, I love peace and quiet, but she is the total opposite. During her stay she would listen to her music or bother me again with pictures and videos of that band. I was so annoyed, but I could not just tell her to gather her stuff and leave.
When she asked me another time, luckily in a message, telling me not to sleep because she was coming over, I got really angry; I replied telling her politely that I was too tired that day, which I was by the way, if she could go to someone else instead. I was so tired and angry I was willing to skip food, and that is not a good sign because I have inappropriate feeling towards food.
She sent me a message telling me she had nowhere to go, for her cousin had the key to her room and she was studying at that time. I felt terrible and told her that I was going to leave the door open for her, but I instructed her not to wake me up. However I decided I was better off waiting for her and then head to bed, but she called and said she was not coming. You can not imagine how happy I was then.
Now moving on to the next thing that bothers me about her. We all go to university to study, and since Thursday is the last day we all want to go home early. Both of us have a Literary Texts lecture, but she goes home and I stay. Later she asks me to give her my handouts and information.
Dear friend, you decided to go home, so take responsibility of your decisions. Even though if you did not find a bus to take you home you can stay at your uncle's house or have your father get you home. On the other hand I neither have relatives to stay with nor a father or anyone to take me home on the rare occasion of there being no buses, so why am I the one to stay and you to leave?
She said that the second semester she would start attending, but whenever I ask her why she was not attending, she says she is either tired or sick. As if I am not tired at all, and even if I am sick I stay. It's only one lecture and then you are permitted to go home, what damage would it cause you if you stayed an hour or two?
I may come out mean, but if you go through what I am going through no matter how silly it is, you would want to vent your anger now and then in order to be able to endure more later.
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